3 steps to happiness

What if I told you your whole life has been training you to be unhappy?

See if this makes sense to you.

Since you were born, every commercial and advertisement you have seen, plus social pressure has mandated the following formula (which I believe to be not only wrong but has brought us to the mess we are in)

1. DO something in your life that will make you as much money as possible so you can…

2. HAVE lots of stuff. (cars, houses, clothes, friends etc) because when you have this stuff you will look like those people in the commercials and advertisements and you will…

3. BE somebody! You will BE happy, and have a great body, life, relationship, whatever.

What this has done is drive us into serious, debilitating debt, greed, jealousy etc. It has driven us away from the value system this country was built upon.

Here is the true formula to follow…

1. BE who you are. Invest the time to learn about you – and be joyful in exactly who that is. Under no circumstances attempt to be somebody else. It never works.

2. DO what you love to do. Not only are you investing your whole life into this – you are responsible for accomplishing things in this world only you can do – so do them!

3. HAVE what you need. The universe has always supplied what we need. It will continue to do so. Especially if you are being who you are and doing what you love!

Disagree or agree? And how are will you accomplish this?

Create Your Life – Now More Than Ever

I have heard enough bad news in the last two days to last me a lifetime.

If we listen to the bad news bears the world is about to cave in on itself.

From my perspective it looks a bit different. We can only control our world – so that is where my focus lies.

At the horse stables in Atlanta, business is brisk. Although we are not getting as many calls for boarding as normal for this time of year, we are swamped with horse lesson, camp, and birthday pony party requests.

In the “Market Your Local Business” arena, more and more folks are beginning to realize the effectiveness and affordability of moving the majority of their marketing online – and they are using me to do it.

The point is this – do not let others tell you what your world looks like. Only you create your world. Granted you can choose to give that power to someone else – but what kind of life will they choose for you?

How hard will they work to make sure you have an amazing life?

Think hard about that and make the necessary changes you need – beginning today to create the world in which you live.

For the Opportunity Seekers…

I have watched (and participated in) the ‘opportunity seeking’ described below by Seth Godin.

It is too easy in our fast paced life to think there is a shortcut.

(Reprinted for sethgodin.com)

Get rich quick

As long as there have been people who want to get rich, there have been get rich quick schemes. The guys who sell mailing lists have a name for people who buy these schemes: “opportunity seekers.” (more…)

Why Change Your Life?

This is a video I did when was giving away my ebook years ago.

I’ll still send it you… send me an email.

BTW – the self improvement site is no longer published…

The story of Be – Do – Have.

Change My Life Now!

Just in case you are not aware of this – I have been writing articles, blog posts, and copy for websites for a long time.

I looked up last week (metaphysically speaking) and realized I have spread myself very thin while attempting to maintain several different idea and projects at once.

What has happened is I now have too many blogs to maintain, with too many different things to focus on.

This must be changed. The more I learn about self development and online marketing (which are my two main focuses) the more I think they can be combined into one area. Then of course we have a horse farm as well. Don’t know how that will fit but we’ll figure it out!

My goal is to do just that. I need one place to talk about both.

It will be very interesting to see just how this plays out because as of now I have not a clue how to go about it!