by miami | May 9, 2007
I wrote the book BeDoHave – The Cure the Great Unknown American Epidemic almost three years ago now. Thousands have heard the message contained within and have told me it works for them.
Over the winter I found myself falling back on Doing Having Being! And my life changed dramatically – for the worse!
Once I saw what I was doing and changed it back to Being first – it took a very short time to restore the equilibrium I need in my life. My energy returned, my happiness level soared back to previous level.
(Hang on – there is a point to this story!)
If you have read much of my articles over the last five years, you are aware Shelly and I built a sailboat to live on for six years. I loved it. We decided when our first son was 5 to come back from the Carribbean, sell the boat and make lots of money. (more…)
by miami | Apr 16, 2007
If I believe in the natural laws of the Universe (as I should), there are several to keep in mind as I go about my business of finding happiness on a daily basis while ensuring a good life for myself and my family.
Among some of the laws I pay attention to are the 80/20 rule, the law of attraction and the law of equal but opposite actions.
April 15 is a good example of the law of equal but opposite actions. Another way to look at this law is to define it as challenges and opportunities. If for every action there is an equal but opposite action, then for every challenge there is an equal but opposite opportunity.
Does this sound familiar?
Somehow I have blessed with the ability to search for the opportunity long before I see something as a challenge.
In fact, challenges excite me as I know what is coming is in all probability an opportunity to achieve a wish, want or goal. I can get excited simply by thinking that the Universe is sending me this opportunity to learn, gain or help in some way with outcomes I had never even considered!
However, when it comes right down to it, isn’t this all about choice? Each of us has the choice to decide whether something is an opportunity or a challenge. Is the glass half full or half empty?
On April 15, we all have the opportunity to feed the goose that lays the golden eggs. We live in the most incredible land of opportunity in the world and we must support that land.
Is the goose too fat? Certainly. Does the goose eat too much. Absolutely.
As Jim Rohn says “Better a fat goose than no goose at all!”
Don’t worry. Be happy.
Miami
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by miami | Apr 12, 2007
Welcome to the new subscribers. I am always amazed and honored that you saw something in the posts to encourage you to ask for more.
I am in the middle of a lot of changes. One of them is a new site.
A friend from Hawaii and I were very excited to launch www.supersuccessfulkids.com last week to start a community dedicated to helping our kids define what success is for them and then help them achieve it. (more…)
by miami | Mar 15, 2007
There are two ways to get to an end result. Only two.
One is to be pulled toward the result. The other is to be pushed toward the result.
Most people push themselves or are pushed by others. A few are pulled.
Which of these two ways do you think makes for a better, easier to achieve result? Why?
If there is something you want to do, and you want to do it with all your heart, how hard is it for you to overcome procrastination, fear and challenges to reach that goal?
On the other hand, if you really do not care whether you get there or not, or worse if you are striving for someone else’s goal, how hard is it to overcome procrastination, fear and challenges?
What makes the difference?
Owning a vision of the future is crucial to success whether in business or personal growth.
If you have a vision nothing will stand in your way. You will not want to stop at the end of the day, and you will want to get after it as soon as you can in the morning. Procrastination,which is the most damaging of all afflictions is laid to waste, fear falls by the wayside and challenges melt like butter!
Find a vision.
At the least, find a short term vision and work on that until the longer term becomes obvious. Work with a partner or a coach to define your vision.
It can and must be done.
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